خلاصة:
اکثر والدین از دروغگویی کودکان خود شکایت دارند ولی عامل شکل گرفتن این پدیده را در آنها نمی دانند و آگاهی چندانی برای برخورد با این پدیده زشت ندارند و اغلب دست به اقدامات عجولانه و تنبیهات ناروا و تحقیرات بی مورد می زنند که وضعیت را وخیم تر می کند.دروغگویی زمانی اتفاق می افتد که آنان می خواهند چیزی را توصیف نمایند یا به اصطلاح آرزویی کنند که واقعیت آن چیزی بود که می خواستند.در سنین 6 یا 7 سالگی کودکان از زشتی این کار مطلع می شوند.مثلاکودکی ممکن است چهار کودک را در کوچه دیده باشد و عده آنان را هفت نفر ذکر کند. یک دلیل این بیان غیر واقعی می تواند عدم قدرت تمیز بین 4 و 7 باشد و دلیل دیگر این است که او میخواهد بگوید عده بچه ها یی را که دیده خیلی بوده بنابراین آن را افزونتر از واقع بیان کندبدیهی است که در این قسمت زمینه ذهنی،پیامد های رفتاری و تربیتی را مد نظر قرار دهیم و اگر مساله عدم تشخیص یا درک ذهنی باشد در این صورت اطلاق درغگویی بعید به نظر می رسد.
Since a person's personality is formed during childhood, it is better to strengthen positive
and pleasant characteristics in him before he becomes an adult, so that he can enter other
areas of life with the same good characteristics. Identify the talents and negative
characteristics of the child and try to eliminate them. One of these deviations, which is
considered a type of personality disorder in a person, is the unpleasant trait of lying. Lying
is one of the issues that are always the concern of coaches, teachers and parents. Most of the
parents complain about their children's lying, but they don't know the cause of this
phenomenon in them, and they don't have much knowledge to deal with this ugly
phenomenon, and they often take hasty actions and unjust punishments and unnecessary
insults, which make the situation worse. Lying happens when they want to describe
something or so-called wish that the reality was what they wanted. At the age of 6 or 7,
children learn about the ugliness of this act. For example, a child may tell four children He
has seen them in the street and mentions seven of them. One reason for this unrealistic
statement can be the lack of clean power between 4 and 7, and another reason is that he
wants to say that the number of children he has seen was many, so he will express it more
than it really is. It is obvious that in this part, we should consider the mental context,
behavioral and educational consequences, and if the issue is lack of recognition or mental
understanding, then the application of lying seems unlikely.